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Name:	Pam Nagy
Message:	It's your birthday today. I miss you. I always looked forward to this time of the year, because I knew I would see you more often. You would stay with us on the way to a tournament and we would catch up. No more visits from my only brother. Love, Pami
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Name:	Erik Oberhammer
Message:	The loss of the great gypsy warrior (Jena) and his dance of tennis will be with me daily as I continue my journey down the road of life! The news of a great soul passing has never been easy to grip. In the late 1980s the tennis gods sent Jena to me thru his first book Tantric Tennis: The gypsy warrior and his dance and this experience saved my tennis life! The book jumped off a shelf of Joe Bouquin a New England tennis legend during one of my many visits with Joe and his mother Ruth! They told me a story about Jena sleeping under the dogwood tree during his visit to Joes club Germantown Tennis in Danbury Connecticut! Funny thing is this gypsy was sleeping in the clubhouse of the hole in a wall club. I was across the street at the barbershop getting my locks shaved off and the barber tells me the story about the guy that stayed under the dogwood tree with the chalkboard knowing that I am crashing in the clubhouse. At the time caring Tantric Tennis as my survival guide everywhere I traveled on my gypsy pilgrimage along with The lazy man guide to enlightenment! I was looking forward to one day meeting Jena and then just like I came a cross the book the warrior came into my life. Working at a tennis club in Brookfield Connecticut as a pro and tournament director it was my job to put on the event men 35s! The entry deadline had passed and the draws were almost finished and the phone rings! Hello this is Jena Marcovicci can I get in to the tournament this weekend? It was like the tennis gods were at work again! Jena wanted to know if there was some cheap place in town to crash for the night and I was like you can crash on the floor (no bed) at my apartment with my family if you want? He was so happy with the floor! Jena won the Friday night match and was up early drinking the green seaweed stuff and doing his tai chi under a tree at the club! Wow it was so great to meet him and host him on my floor! When Jena departed for home he gifted me The Dance of Tennis and I felt so blessed to have met the guru that made me a better (sweeter) player and human being! Years passed and Jena came back again for a visit on his trip north from Florida! He drove all the way from Miami to Myrtle Beach and we met at a gas station and then right to the club from some sending and receiving of the yellow ball! We had never hit with each other and this was the first and only time that we got to dance on the court! God it was great and just so much fun being on the court with the great gypsy warrior. Then it was off to my house with my two daughters and Jena was ready for dinner! He made tofu and spinach with cashews! My girls were young and they remember that meal to this day! We went for a swim and Jena went to work on the laptop silent mind fluid body! We said are good byes the next day and then met again in 2001 at the USTA Tennis Teachers Conference in NYC! It was so cool to see Jena bring the dance to the main arena! It was there that I got the chance to meet Skye and we had some great vibes and a bite to eat! I teach and preach the dance every day and will continue to spread the word of the great gypsy warrior till the day we float and glide again! Peace and Love PS: Sorry for the lateness! I found out about Jena passing when looking on the USPTA job listings and saw the ad posted for Marcovicci Court! Erik Oberhammer [IMG]http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h207/beachtennis/scan.jpg[/IMG]
Name:	natch
Message:	From "Natch". I encountered Jena at Jay's Cafe in PB, San Diego, (Hi Jay!) during his talk fast and chalkboard period, later 1970's. My girlfriend and I visited him in a few places thereafter. He had a lasting, forever effect, on everyone it seems. I am happy and sad. He is loved, forever.
Name:	Holly Borowiak-Rogers
Message:	Dear Skye, How blessed I feel to have met you and Jena this last summer at Kripalu. My brother,Scott, had told me so much about you both, and it seemed as if we would not be able to meet with the intense schedules we all had. But it did happen, and our meeting left a vivid impression on me. I have met some extremely interesting people in the world of tennis, and especially in the world that combines alternative approaches to sports. Jena's commitment to his vision is the embodiment of Joseph Campbell's words: "One way or another, we all have to find what best fosters the flowering of our humanity in this contemporary life, and dedicate ourselves to that." His enthusiasm, kindness, and original vision were a gift to the world. He was fortunate to have shared his last years with you.
Name:	Scott Borowiak
Message:	Dear Skye: I was in Cuernavaca Mexico having a low energy slight down flu like day when I heard your phone message about Jena. I was on a public phone across from a colorful town square coffee bar. My friend Jorge was waiting for me in the bar as I walked across the street with tears in my eyes. I sat down and told him the news. Of course Jorge, Jena, and I spent two great upbeat weeks together in Italy a couple years ago. There were two guitar players standing next to our table and they wanted to play a song. I was not in the mood but suddenly they started playing something very unusual for a couple of Mexican guys ýHey Jude, donýt make it bad, take a sad song and make it bettahhhhhhh!! I felt something special and emotional at that moment. As Jorge and I joined in singing! Jena would have loved the moment and part of me would like to believe that the song was his positive personal message. The Dance of tennis was really the Joy of Jena and his upbeat view of the world. Of course he had his down moments like everyone but most if all I think of Jena as a guy who was excited and enthused most of the time. Most of the time he seemed like a kid who was on his way to a birthday party!! He seemed to recognize the fun things in life and made me feel like something very special was either occurring or just around the corner. So, theý hey Jude songý seemed to pull me out of the blues and allow me a few minutes to celebrate his great life!!! Hey Jude is about a smile and about a group of people singing together. That is my favorite way to remember dear Jena. Besides some of my close relatives, Jena is my closest friend to date that has passed away. Due to the distance from CA to MA we did not spend that much time together but when we did there were so many memorable experiences and peaceful times during the many summers I spent in the Pittsfield area and during his trips out to Calif. Among his favorite memories were his European Tennis days and times in India back in the 70ýs. I may have been one of the few people around him who could feel and understand those days and he was able to go back and share those memories with me. 1973 was when I first saw that joyful smile, in Paris. We did not know each other very well or even speak that much but in 1981 we really connected again. The highlights of the summer of 1981 were some good times with Jena. We built a sweat lodge with the help of a guy who was part Indian outside his place on the lake. It was an incredible experience both spiritual and incredibly funny! We had some adventures playing in several tennis events- one at Dartmouth and a couple right in Pittsfield- both very memorable. We had some good times in Califorina well before the kids program in LA. Then, of course there were a few years of those amazing inter city school clinics in Watts where Jena worked his magic sometimes under police helicopters and inside locked up playgrounds in the ýhoodý. A couple of years back he came to my hometown in Stockton, CA and all by himself had a huge group of fifty plus kids under control at a local school. The principal said he had never seen anything like it. I do have a little video tape of Jena doing his school program last March in Richmond CA. He would not allow me to film much because it was distracting the kids, but now Iým sure glad to have a little of that footage. I will try to find it and organize it on a DVD. Its only a minute or two but worth doing- at least a clip. I think about him almost everyday and miss him. I'm happy to hear that your home will continue to be at "Camp Jena" and I look forward to a vist again in the near future. Love Scott
Name:	SOTIRIS BRILLAKIS
Message:	Once , very dear SKY , LOVABLE WIFE OF UNFORGETABLE JENA ,we met under the best bases one could ecpect ever, and we spoke about our history in SANTORINI akrotiri - GREECE - at ALTANA in SONIA`S APPARMENTS . Once - then - we were in the same ship for SANTORINI and Jena was carring his tennis bag , always eager to dance the unic DANCE OF TENNIS . W e , all 4 of us Jena Sky , Danae my wife and myself , went to the tennis court in Santorini , and we had been dancing tennis for a long remerable time. I do recall this special smile of Jena as he was speaking about his book , he was writing. YOU were more than kind to send me A COPY OF THE BOOK and the special T sirt that I keep as a REAL PART OF OUR NEW BORN -AT THAT TIME - FRIENDSHIP. TODAY 7 - JANUARY 2008 I WANTED TO SEND YOU MY WISHES FOR THE NEW YEAR 2008 .I GOT IN THE WEB AND I JUST READ THE ...... , OH my dear Sky I feel so small to speak - write for this loss. IT WAS A BONUS FOR MY LIFE the fact that I was able , there in the Santorini Island to cut a piece of wire from my JEEP - LADA NIVA and use it to connect the laptop of Jena to the AC POEWR , so he could use it to write his work. I still remember how he and you as well, liked the tunes I had been playing with my long wooden flute early in the morning one day under your apartment`s window. WE SHALL REMEMBER JENA AS A LOVABLE AND GIVING PERSON . Sotiris Brillakis Danae Antonakou. FROM GREECE Volanaki street 22 , 11528 ATHENS GREECE
Name:	Melissa North
Message:	Jena-I miss you very much. Your huge smile, your kind and soft voice, the inner peace that radiates out from your soul, dinner at Bizen, the tent on a rainy night, dinner at Wok-N-Roll, your inhibitions, your child-like joy at the tinest things, your excitement at watching your house grow into your deam realized...I miss you my uncle.
Name:	Lisa Hamilton
Message:	Jena was undoubtedly one of the brightest lights. May he shine and dance in his next life as brilliantly as in this one.
Name:	Jay Liebowitz
Message:	I took Jena's Dance of Tennis workshops at Omega Family Week. They would begin as meditation/yoga/tennis classes and end up as therapy sessions where everyone would be trusting and sharing and helping each other cope with difficult life issues. With the way he would tell stories about himself -- such as not speaking for a year and a half -- we would become at ease with each other. We became his devotees and would just keep coming back for more each summer. He had this way of helping you grow in ways you could not imagine, so quickly and deeply. Family Week, Omega, and the world will not be the same without him.
Name:	Alyx Simms
Message:	I had not known Jena for that long but he was a very nice guy and loved to pass on his knowledge of tennis to me. He was always supportive and never got angry at me when I would mess up. He was a very inspiring person who made me feel good about my self. I did not expect him to leave that soon as i had only said goodbye to him 4 weeks earlier before he died. Im going to miss him and hope that if you read this I hope your doing well and ill see you my christmas break.
Name:	Mary GRODEN
Message:	Jena- He brought us all to the altar of tennis and made it into a spiritual practice! Everytime i step onto the court his joy for teaching and tennis comes with me. He taught me that every stroke or volley -and we hit a lot of volleys- is actually a prayer. I will miss having an opportunity to work with him in the physical world but he will always be with me in my heart- on or off the court. My sorrow for her loss goes out to Skye - you were so much the air on which he flew.
Name:	Steven Pavletic
Message:	The news found me in disbelief. Having had only two Dance of Tennis courses with Jena these were enough for transforming my life. These experiences became an integral part of me. On my behalf, of my family and of all students I wish to say "Thank you Jena for all - this is so loving and unforgettable."
Name:	Curt Tong
Message:	I never had as much fun on the tennis court as when playing doubles with Jena. He was a fine player and a most enjoyable and entertaining doubles partner. I giggle when recalling one match in Vermont when Jena ran off the court to check on his sprouts, his meal in the making. He feared they were "burning up" in the back seat of his VW bug. At a time when he was not verbalizing, he explained his action by writing on a pad of paper.
Name:	Ruth Wheeler
Message:	Whether on a Josh team with Jena, knowing him as a long time customer or more recently watching him put an addition on his house, I will remember his smile most of all. Ruth
Name:	Steve Meyer
Message:	Your sister Michelle and I will miss your friendship. You always welcomed us warmly when we visited. Your calm demeanor helped me to relax. My condolences to Skye and your family
Name:	John Caponetto
Message:	I only wish I had the opportunity to have taken the dance with tennis course. I had wanted to many times and my work schedule prevented me from experiencing something great. I hope that the replacement for such a great man can be found and his enthusiasm for the sport matched. As I would like to follow through with my quest to take the tennis course in the near future. He died way too young!!! And I am curious about how he died. I would like to know only to understand why life is so short for some of our most important people. Especially those who want to promote the wellbeing of all mankind and who are gentle at heart and want to make a difference in a very violent world. This truely is a tragedy and I want to understand more about his passing. He was much to young to go and I hope his spirit will live long and prosperous at Omega!! That is all I can ask and I look forward to hearing how this young pioneer passed and why he had to be taken from us at such a young age!! I am almost 50 years old and these type of tragedies hit home. Thankyou for your consideration and responses!! Sincerely; John Caponetto
Name:	John Caponetto
Message:	I only wish I had the opportunity to have taken the dance with tennis course. I had wanted to many times and my work schedule prevented me from experiencing something great. I hope that the replacement for such a great man can be found and his enthusiasm for the sport matched. As I would like to follow through with my quest to take the tennis course in the near future. He died way too young!!! And I am curious about how he died. I would like to know only to understand why life is so short for some of our most important people. Especially those who want to promote the wellbeing of all mankind and who are gentle at heart and want to make a difference in a very violent world. This truely is a tragedy and I want to understand more about his passing. He was much to young to go and I hope his spirit will live long and prosperous at Omega!! That is all I can ask and I look forward to hearing how this young pioneer passed and why he had to be taken from us at such a young age!! I am almost 50 years old and these type of tragedies hit home. Thankyou for your consideration and responses!! Sincerely; John Caponetto
Name:	Rikako Horiguchi
Message:	I met him at October 8th and 9th. We could had a "dance of Teniss"just three of us.(with my boyfriend) We had a good time, and want to do again..we always talk about him!! I am so sad!! he gave me tnnis racket.This is my first racket. oh my god,,,I am so sad... He is so sweet and good teacher.... Please assept my condolences...
Name:	Sam
Message:	Great memories of Jena...his life touched many with love , humor and energy...I remember him as a teacher, co-dancer and buddy when I worked on staff at Omega...from me and "my favorite squeeze" (his quote)..Ariella...we send love...
Name:	Lana Gelb
Message:	The moment I met Jena, I felt a strong connection due to our likemindedness. We would have long discussions about the tennis world, Tai Chi and lots of esoteric "stuff". I always admired his great passion for his chosen purpose. I especially admired his beautiful spirit. I love the way he looked at Skye, and always thought how lucky they both were to find each other. I am still in total shock at your passing, Jena - the world is definitely a poorer place. You are greatly missed, my friend - rest in peace.
Name:	Brian Sisselman
Message:	Gene Marsten will remain in my memories for my whole life. His was an inspiration to me when I was just staring to ski. I suppose he was my first hero. I was always thrilled to run into Gene in the Berkshires although it was far too infrequent. No one could have lived a more inspired life and hopefully many of us can follow his example. I'm sure Gene is happy where ever he is now either playing tennis or skiing. My heartfelt tears go out to you for losing a brother, son and friend. The world will not be a better place without Gene Marsten. Warmest regards and sincerest sympathies, Brian Sisselman 14 Ledgewood Lan Cape Elizabeth, Maine 04107
Name:	Edelgard and Dieter Kalus, Koblenz, Germany
Message:	November 20, 2007 It is not for the dead we have to care, they are in God's hand; it is for the ones left behind. Poor Skye, you will have to fill the emptiness with good memories, to come over this first winter. We assure you of our sympathy. We will alway cherish the memories of the time we spent together. Please accept our condolences! Sincerely Edelgard and Dieter Kalus
Name:	liz krupp
Message:	Dear Skye, This is a letter that I can't believe I am writing as it seems impossible that our dear Jena is no longer with us. To say that George & I, as well as our sons Michael and Daniel, are deeply shocked and saddened by Jena's untimely death is a grievous understatement. Jena was so much a part of our Berkshires experience. In fact, he was the first person we met when we decided to rent a little house in Stockbridge for the summer of 1983. I played lots of tennis back then, so George signed us up for lessons with the pro at the Stockbridge golf and tennis Club. It was there we met the bearded, ponytailed, hip pro Jena and we became fast friends. Jena improved my game and improved our lives with his laughter, his calm and his joyful nature. He talked me out of the self-inflicted anger whenever I missed or hit a bad shot. His technique didn't work on soothing George, however, who insisted on slamming his racket against any hard surface, be it fence or court, in frustration! Needless to say, Jena sold George lots of new rackets that first summer! When we bought a house in Lenox, we naturally turned to jena to help us design the proper court. For the next 20 summers, Jena came twice a week to give us lessons on that court. From the time they were big enough to hold a racket (which Jena had selected for them), our sons grew up with Jena's teachings. Over the years, Jena occupied a very special place in our hearts...so many wonderful stories, so much history with this very sweet, extraordinary man...how we will miss him. May his memory be a blessing for all who had the priviledge of knowing him.
Name:	Mary S Green
Message:	I was so sorry to hear of Jena's passing. Though I did not know him well, I was inspired by his commitment to a holistic lifestyle and to letting go and having FUN! I will always remember his playful energy and his radiant smile. (Dance of Tennis workshop participant, 1992)
Name:	Skip Weisman
Message:	This has been a tough week for me. For 8-days my website and e-mail was down due to a server transition that went bad. Then, on the night the website was restored the big blow for me came on Friday night. A mentor of mine whom I was just getting to know and love through some intimate business coaching, left me. I had a coaching session scheduled with my peak performance coach for Friday night, November 9th at 5pm. When I arrived at his home in the Berkshires in Massachusetts, a 90-minute drive from my home, his wife of 16 years greeted me at the door. In a very somber voice she told me that he passed away suddenly from a heart attack two weeks ago, just one week after our last coaching session. Needless to say Iýve been reeling in grief and disbelief for the past 48 hours trying to figure out where I go from here. I certainly have enough tools to carry on, but I'm having trouble focusing on them right now. In just the short time that Jena Marcovicci and I became coach and mentor I believe I finally began to move towards fulfilling my potential. We met officially the final weekend in July at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York when my wife and I attended his Dance of Tennis workshop. During that weekend we learned to turn our competitive tennis nature into one of partnership with the person on the other side of the net so that we could play an enjoyable game. We let go of the need to hit perfect shots and to win and learned to just be able to hit the ball consistently where we want it to go, even if most of those shots during our workshop were right back to our partner to keep the rally going. We used the same relaxation, breathing, guided imagery strategies I teach my business clients. Jena taught me to add yoga and tai chi to prepare myself for tennis. Each day we played tennis to music ranging from Bach & Beethoven to Little Richard to African bongos. It was the most joyous weekend Iýve ever experienced. It brought my wife and I closer together. During the weekend I became enamored with Jenaýs soft way of life and an ability to create even deeper focus and concentration through breathing than I was able to reach by myself. I knew if I wanted to get better at teaching these peak performance strategies I need to learn more under the tuteledge of a master and I believed Jena could help me do that. It took two months after that tennis weekend for us to coordinate schedules so that we could connect for a 1:1 coaching session at his retreat center in the Berkshire Mountains on the Massachusetts/New York border. We only had two sessions, one in late September and one in the middle of October but they will be with me forever. I will use what Jena Marcovicci taught me to help otherýs in business achieve the greater focus, relaxation and peace of mind that Jena brought to me and my business and other weekend and professional athletes. I feel cheated that Jena, my coach and mentor is gone, as I wasnýt ready to stop learning from him. I feel cheated because one two-day ýDance of Tennisý weekend wasnýt enough for me and I was looking forward to attending again next summer. But, Jena and a higher power had other plans. In speaking with his wife Skye that night at the doorstep of their retreat center I felt a deeper connection to Jena and his work than I had up to this point. Jena had deep convictions about life, death, this world and how he wanted it to be and how he wanted to leave it. He left this world on his terms and all of us should have the right to do the same and I respect him for that more than ever. You see, as my wife watches the Wizard of Oz downstairs on TV, the show where four lost souls go searching for a lost piece of their personality, I went to Jena Marcovicci to find a lost piece of my personality, my congruency and integrity. In just two sessions he opened my eyes and allowed me to recapture that integrity and congruency that I let slip away in recent years. For that I will be forever grateful and to honor Jena, myself and my clients I will continue the daily morning practice of meditation, yoga and the tai chi that Jena encouraged me to incorporate into my routine. In just three short weeks I can feel a difference in how I approach my life and I have every intention of maintaining the practice so that I can continue to grow and serve Jenaýs memory and the best interests of those that come to me for my help. So that others that never met Jena can know how special he was to me I have also posted this story on my blog - www.WeismanSuccessResources.com/wordpress
Name:	Hillary Cohen
Message:	Dear Skye, I just heard the sad news from Carole about Jena's death. I am so terribly, terribly sorry. Although you and I do not know each other well, I felt we had a connection which we discovered during what was to be a "quiet, relaxing" massage. You are in my thoughts, dear heart. Since I am in Florida now the best I can do is to send you thoughts of love and healing. Maybe we can talk more this summer when you are not so raw. Please accept my deepest condolences at this most devasting time. With compassion, Hillary
Name:	Ken Hydinger
Message:	Rambliný Boy He was a man and a friend always He stuck with me the bad old days. He never cared if I had no dough, We rambled round in the rain and snow. So hereýs to you my Rambling Boy, May all your rambling bring you joy. So hereýs to you my Rambling Boy, May all your rambling bring you joy. A favorite song of Jenaýs and mine. It speaks some to our younger days. We each came into the song in a different time and different way and were surprised (and pleased) that each other knew it and we could share it. I have to thank Jena for being a friend first and foremost. Never any doubt of that through different paths and times. Few people with the character to be that true a friend. Jena started me playing tennis and that has been my life since then. He gave me direction and motivation thru advice, good books and helpful acts. We learned together and we competed as we grew. But always a friend and always a constant spirit of the heart. Jena grew and matured and the actions resulting from the spirit became more beautiful, but the strong spirit was always there. We both wanted to be great players, but both of us spent more of our life teaching. We both always loved the game, the outdoors, and the dream. I have the sorrowful joy of still learning from Jena in his leaving us. Learning better ways to live life, how to be a better person, and how to fulfill the spirit of a joyful life. Our love and deepest condolences to Skye, all of Jenaýs Family, and to the Berkshires. We think of you all constantly. The night sky over Greylock will be a little darker as we have lost one of our brightest stars. Ken Hydinger
Name:	Justine Rudman (Carole's daughter-in-law)
Message:	Dear Skye, I am so sad to hear that Jena passed away and want you to know that I am thinking of you at this hard time. When my father died at the age of 59 years I found it so unfair but tried hard to remember all the great, funny times we had spent together. His spirit and love lives on with me, in all that I do and achieve. I only knew Jena a little bit but I could tell his spirit and love for life was strong. He liked to help others and I know he was really helping Carole. Take care, all my love Justine Franks Rudman (Carole's daughter-in-law)
Name:	Barry Schechter
Message:	This story was too long for me to tell at Jena and Skye's house last Friday after the memorial service, so I'm sharing it here... while still trying to keep it as short as possible. Although it has been said that one should never let the truth get in the way of a good tale, I'd like to make clear that I haven't embellished this at all: While playing doubles one day in the late 1990's at the Smith College outdoor courts in Northampton, we hit a ball over the fence that came to rest about ten feet from Smith's running track. There's no gate in the fence on that side of the courts, but fortunately (we thought)there was a guy on the track who was about to go right by the ball, and he was plodding along very slowly... he wouldn't even have to break his stride to toss the ball back over the fence to us. However, when I asked him "Could you please throw us our ball?" he shook his head "no" and kept shuffling along. Of course, I should have just ignored him... but I was so taken aback by his rudeness that I yelled sarcastically "Hey, thanks a lot!" The next thing I know, this guy is over at the chain link fence separating us, almost foaming at the mouth, screaming inane things like "Why should I get YOUR ball??? Would you wipe my forehead with a towel if I asked you to?" Lacking Jena's ability to not get upset, I have to admit that I replied "Sure, I'd even wipe your ASS... what's the big deal about tossing us our ball?" I had the distinct feeling that this guy would have been at my throat if the fence wasn't there - he was totally out of control. Ok, now we fast forward a couple of months to a different situation: My wife Kathy and I are about to host a benefit evening at our house for the Dance of Tennis inner-city program, and roughly 20 of my local tennis friends are planning to contribute $25 each for a meal and a talk by Jena. A few days before the event, Jena calls and asks if an old friend of his (we'll call him "George") who doesn't have much money, can attend without paying... and I answer "Of course, Jena - he's your friend." The next day, George calls for directions to our house, and when I happen to mention the format for the evening to him, he says "Well, no, I think you should have the meal first, and then show the inner-city video, and then have Jena talk..." And as I'm politely answering him, I'm thinking "Gee, this guy isn't even paying a dollar to come, and he's trying to tell us how to run the benefit... interesting!" On the night of the benefit (it will come as no shock to many of you!) Jena arrives 45 minutes late, but we finally get started. The 20 of us are sitting on chairs in a big circle in the back yard listening to Jena speak (God, he was an awesome speaker in situations like this)when the man who must be George finally arrives. So now I'm thinking "It was so important to this (non-paying)guy to try to micromanage our event, and then he gets here an hour late!" At the same time, there's also something familiar about George, and I'm wondering "Hm.m.mm... he looks so familiar - where do I know him from?" And suddenly I realize "THAT'S the guy who wouldn't throw us our tennis ball!!!" When Jena finishes speaking, (being the host)I go up to George and introduce myself and he says "You look so familiar - where do I know you from?" And I just played dumb, and George apparently never figured it out, because in this different context he seemed to like me just fine! Later, I took Jena aside and asked him casually "So how do you know George?" and I swear that Jena's full reply was something like: "I met him originally through tennis, but he's stopped playing because he got frustrated by the other players smashing the ball in the corners of the court, and not playing cooperatively with him. Now I think he just runs laps on the track at Smith..." Ah! So I had unknowingly triggered George's animosity towards the WHOLE tennis community when I asked for our ball! After I quickly told Jena my story about meeting George before, he just laughed and said "Yeah, he can be a difficult friend... one time I was staying at his apartment and in the middle of the night I had to relieve myself - and it was a beautiful night - so I peed in the dark in his back yard, and when George found out he wouldn't talk to me for about 6 months! I'm not sure why he got so upset, but we eventually got back to being friends again..." Of course, the point I'm trying to make in telling this story is that Jena would never give up on ANYONE!!! I saw him continually befriend very difficult people, and he always treated them exactly the same wonderful way he treated others.
Name:	Sister Suzy
Message:	I miss you, big brother. You taught me alot but I am still striving. Hey, you survived growing up with 5 girls(mom&4 sisters), not an easy task. I remember you strumming on your guitar upstairs on Adelaide Ave. I loved all the inspirational songs. I saw the transformation from Gene to Jena, and got a first row seat to the 60's through your eyes and ears. When you traveled and came back to the Pitts you would tell Grandpa Troy that you were trying to find yourself and of course, he would respond, "Just look in the mirror, it's staring you in the face." Not everyone even dares to venture such an obscure concept. You never took things for the way they seemed. I have so many interesting and colorful memories. I loved the phone greeting, "Hellloooo, this is Jena!" I imagine the same energy and enthusiasm when you passed through the gates of eternal life along with your big smile. I admired most, your perserverence and patience. I only wish I had half of it. I want you here and I wasn't ready. I was thankful for our conversation on Thursday. I miss you and am proud to be your sister. I love you. You touched so many lives. You were truly blessed.
Name:	Andrew Chmura (Sham)
Message:	Yena touched my life in so many different stages. He was the first tennis coach I had that helped me stay calm and not establish blame for everything that may or may not have happend on the court, and in life. He was the first to show me how I felt on the court could translate to life and happiness off the court. Bounce, hit, breath. He came to Vermont about 8 years ago and taught a "Dance of Tennis" seminar to a packed house at my first big tennis job. He was a star, spiritualy and professionally. He loved tennis and had a very special way of sharing that with others. He was the best communicator (even when he did not speak) about the game and life I have ever met. I will miss his wisdom.
Name:	Mike and Misoo
Message:	Skye, We posted on Tennis Club below with Yena's photos as well as article from "Berkshires Week". And last Friday, before the exhibition tennis match, manager, Peter announced to members and asked them to moment of silent. We are very sorry. And hope you know we are thinking of you and praying for you everyday and miss you so much. Call us any time. Let us know how you are doing. From love Misoo and Mike your friends. Dear TENNIS CLUB MERMBERS: As you may know, we have lost a dear friend with the passing of JENA MARCOVICCI this week. Many of you played TENNIS with JENA during his yearly visits to the club each winter. He was a colorful guy with a gentle spirit who touched everyone he encountered. JENA is survived by his wife, SKYE, and his mother and three sisters, who are trying to cope with this very sudden and unexpected loss. Below is an article that appeared in the BERKSHIRES WEEK NEWSPAPER giving a brief account of his life and TENNIS PHILOSPHY. We will all miss JENA and think of him fondly. SERVICES FOR JEAN WILL BE HELD ON FRIDAY NOVEMBER 2 AT ST. MARKS CHATHEDRAL, 400 WEST STREET, PITTSFIELD MA.
Name:	Jonathan Tennis
Message:	Jena was a fine person. He helped rid me of a nagging neck pain once by pressing down on my collar bone area with his elbow unpinching a nerve. He was a healer and a passionate teacher of the game of tennis. Sorry to hear of his passing, he helped many people in this life and his teachings will live on in the hearts and minds of all those fortunate enough to have met him. I'm honored to have known him.
Name:	Jillian Rudman
Message:	I only met Jena from a distance, when I would come to visit Skye for the spiritual adventure (massage therapy)at Camp Marcovicci. All I know is that Jena touched the lives of so many people - that he will never be forgotten. My mother and father will carry his words and his practice deep within them - as his magic - and infinite wisdom - has made a profound impact on my family. I want to thank you Jena for touching my life (although from a distance) and for the gifts that you shared with Carole and Ed. I will always hold a place for you in my heart. With love, Jillian Rudman
Name:	Jay Gordon
Message:	part 4, see below for the first three parts. Leon your post about playing at the Stockbridge Country Club, I had forgotten that phase. Now I remember playing Yena some tough matches there late in the day, after he had been teaching since 7 or 8 a.m. and I had been relaxing all day. Try teaching for 7 or 8 hours straight then playing a tough match. That was Yena. I could not do that. I needed my nap in there somewhere. Now to life at Camp Yena. Sleeping in the big tent and being afraid of bears all the time. That was Skye's fault for telling me all the bear stories and having a compost pile for them to come feed at. I admit to a great deal of pride when Yena put up the sign on the kitchen with my name on it, as tribute to the glory days in San Diego and I guess because I gave him to stove top. Since that stove top had ben in my home for several years in Ft. Lauderdale, I felt very at home cooking oatmeal in the woods at Camp Yena. But didn't everyone feel at home at Camp Yena? Isn't that the wonderful blessing that Yena has conferred on all of us?! I remember sharing so many meals with Yena in his kitchen, and although I had been into natural foods since 1970, and considered myself to be very knowlegable and careful about what I ate, I looked to Yena as my guru. He was so physically strong, lean and muscular, doing yoga and tai chi. I was a slacker compared to him. Finally, I want to thank Skye for everything, including letting us sleep in her massage room. We had a great time going to Tanglewood and Jacob's Pillow, playing in the tennis tournament in Williamstown, hanging out at the healthfood cafe in Pittsfield, mingling with the rich and famous in Stockbridge, and Skye, didn't you take us on a hike one time? We were all lucky there was a Yena and he created so much action for the rest of us to enjoy. Oh yeah Yena, I am on to your tactic of serving and coming in behind your pathetic serve on the ad court when you were down break point. That may have worked, much to my annoyance, a few hundred times in the past. But you are not going to get away with that lame play anymore.
Name:	Andy Glatstein
Message:	40 Years of Forehands. They donýt come along like Jena very often. A guy of many names, but always his own person-- The tennis player formerly known as Gene Marsten, Dr. Jena, Littlefoot, the Tantric Dancer, Yoda. I first met him in 1967, when I was thirteen. He was the super serious player from Miami-Dade JC North (they were national champs), who would battle against this craggy Homestead guy (Bill Fields)ýying, to Jenaýs yang--for 4 hours at a crack, in the high heat of summer days, all summer long, on the fast, hard courts at Continental Park. It was way too hot for even us kids. He was part of that first A-League team that I looked up toýAl Harum, Herb Jacobsen, Gene Short, Gene Marsten, Frank Nussbaum (a classic Miami teamýchampions and characters). He was dogged and stubborn and determined, whether it was tennis, or yoga, or school. He gave me a lesson, and we hit our first backhands down the line, which we continued to do for years to come. I missed his signature year of not speakingýgiving lessons (life, tennis), on a hand-held chalkboard. The image I have of that, is the overriding picture I have of Jena. That must have signaled his transformation into adulthood and onto his future paths, and it certainly solidified his position in Miami tennis lore. We would run into each other from time to time, hit some, and catch up on tennis and life. I moved back to Miami in the mid-80s, and became a Flyer, at Kirk Monroe Park (the successor to Henderson Park) in the Grove. Jena was a mainstay in that cast of characters, when he would come down during the winter. He and I played on the clay at Fascell, in deference to our knees, and slice backhands. We were old-school players. He was a new-age guy. Each year, he would come down, and we would share our secrets gleaned during the past year, to unlock the forehand and the serve. We would battle around, and there were the occasional glimpses of those great running backhand passes which would break your heart, and be a privilege to witness. Jena blew out his quad, and we spent time hitting one-legged, and arguing with the guy on the next court who wanted to limit us to 4 balls. (ýBut heýs only playing on one leg!ý) Jena came back, better than new. He played the senior circuit, which I respected a lotýit kept him on top of the competitive perspectiveýkept his insight into sport and competition on a first person level. He triumphed through his PhD program, which was a truly remarkable feat. He spent hours on his laptop, writing. We had great times and tennis with the Flyers, at the Homestead in W. Conn. Jena would go upstairs and ýstretchý for hours at a time. I joined him once, and I discovered that it was no fluke that he was in such good shape. In a classic Jenaesque event, he overdid the ecenasia, and almost had to be revived. His stories about his tennis career were great. He played for Allen Fox, the original tennis psychologist, out at Pepperdine, overlooking the Pacific. He hung out with Vilas in Europe. Laver even knew who he was, and informed him, at a tournament, that he was a ýlucky loserý and in the main draw. Jena really hit the jackpot when he found Skye. He must have been quite the mate. (ýsomebody had to do it). His home was magnificent, and a source of real pride. His court was one of the prettiest I have ever seen. His Dance of Tennis (dance of tennis .com) programs were wonderfulýtennis and Jena at their best. He had the kids engaged and having real fun. I hope the spirit of Littlefoot lives on. (Asheville is ready.) I feel that there is a new doubles game going onýhow about Jena and Papa Short against Belvin and Mikeyýpretty good match-up, and looks like the core of the new Higher Flyers. It was a genuine pleasure Jena. I will sorely miss you. You take a great spirit with you. Last threeý Andy Glatstein Asheville, NC November 4, 2007.
Name:	Jay Gordon
Message:	Hi again. This is part three. Anyone coming in now who would like to read the story from the beginnig should start below at the entry which begins "As I read..." Now I would like to tell you how I met Yena. (Anyone who has read this far probably realizes this is something I have to do for myself to deal with this sad, sad time. So please forgive me, Skye and others, if this seems selfish. It is. Sorry, but I am sure Yena would love it and a few of you may enjoy reading it.) It was 1969-70 or so and I was playing in one of my first tennis tournaments in south Florida. I played Yena (or was it Gene Marsten? I will stick with Yena to keep it simple), the I-played-with-Vilas Yena, and I was a rookie. Yena crushed me the first set, but the second was close and long and it was hot and I could run forever, so Yena was getting tired (hard to beleive I know). It was maybe 5 all and I called a ball out on the baseline. Yena comes up to the net, questions my call (you understand it is impossible to see the far baseline from the other end of the court, so challenging that call is tantamount to challenging the honesty and integrity of your opponent), then comes around the net to check the mark. He agrees the ball was out (the king telling the peasant it is ok to drink water from the well), walks back to the other side having caught his breath, and proceeds to promptly win that game and the next for the match. I am not sure I won another point. After the match, not a little upset at his gamemanship, I confronted him with his improper conduct (you are not allowed to walk to the other side to check a mark). He copped to his ruse, saying he was getting tired and needed a break, all very pleasantly of course. Now a few months later I was visiting (mooching off) my Peace Corps friends going to Yale in New Haven and I entered a tournament nearby. Lo and behold who do I play in the third round but my old buddy Gene Marsten, oops Yena. I had been playing a lot and well and I beat him 6-1 the first set, at least that is how I remember it. (Yena speak up if I am getting this wrong) When we changed sides, he complimented me on how well I was playing (again blessed by the king). I snapped back at him that he was not going to talk me out of the match this time! The next game I won was after I had lost the ensuing 11 games, and the only game I won after Yena's "compliment". One more lesson in the life of a tennis bum taught by the master himself to a not-so-willing student/victim. I don't remember where or exactly when I saw him next, but with Yena and I both playing tennis in the Miami area in the early 70's, we became buddies. And the way I remember it, Yena never beat me again. So there! After all, he had no forehand and absolutely no serve. But he did have a world class backhand, and a heart SO strong!! How could it possibly let him down. It is just not right. It does not comply with the order of the universe, which Leon and Sandy taught all of us in 1970.
Name:	Leon Matsil
Message:	hi Jay Gordon. "chalk board in hand" stirred memories. For those of you who did not know, Jena went thru a period without talking. But that did not mean that he did not communicate. Probably around 1976-7 Jena was giving me lessons in Coconut Grove and was hanging around at the Oak Feed Store. When there was a change from one lesson to another, he still would call, but instead of talking he would whistle...one for yes, two for no. My ex, Laura (we both had ex Lauras)would answer the phone, if it was a whistle she knew it was Jena. She then would prompt him "are you calling about the lesson?" ..one... Is it a time change?..and so on until she had it correct at which point Jena would whistle away a good bye. Of course my lessons where without words..some chalk board, but mostly Jena imploring me to bend my knees like a Marcel Marceau at the other end of the court...or turning on my back hand..or taking those all important little steps. I could go on with tales...just the interior of his car could be a novel. Jena certainly one of a kind. He had an impact on many people. I find myself going around during the day thinking...Jena's gone...can't be. And I know that there are so many others feeling a loss. Sending love to you Skye. Jay Gordon...send me an email auroleon@aol.com or call 850-874-2821 and we can swap some tales of Jena
Name:	Jay Gordon
Message:	Ah! Those were the days! I had a vegeatarian restaurant and produce market a block from the ocean in Pacific Beach, Californ-eye-A. All the food and girls you could want. This was the 70's, which was way better than the60's. I was so glad to see Yena. He slept on my sofa in the tiny apartment I was renting with my girlfriend Elaine Stokes, who many years later entered the Skye/Yena universe based at Camp Yena. (sound familiar?) Though Yena was not speaking, he was singing. He played his guitar in the cafe in the evenings for meals and tips, something George Winston did in the first Jay's Cafe in El Cajon. We had no piano in El Cajon, so George played guitar and harmonica. One of the songwiters for the Eagles, whose girlfriend Candy was the baker who created the best onion-rye bread and carob almond cheescake in world, also played guitar and sang for meals and tips in El Cajon. Jay's cafe was happening! So Yena slept, sang and ate under my roof. And we played tennis often at Morley Field. Those are hard courts. There are no marks to check. (This will make sense if you make it to the end of this story.) For those of you who know only the peaceful-warrior Yena, there are those of us who know and love him for the not so peaceful warrior he was, at least in his younger days. We were pretty evenly matched at that time which was hard for Yena to take because he had been a world class player (at least in his mind- just kidding Yena) and I was a hacker. So our matches, these practice mathces for fun (right!) at Morley Field in Balboa Park were hard fought (neither of us ever played any other way). During one of these matches on Yena thought I hooked him on a close call. Of course I think I am the most honest line caller in the world. So we began to argue. But how can Yena argue if he can't speak. At this moment, 30 some years later, I am laughing and crying remembering him rushing over to his bag, grabbing his chalk board and frantically scribbling something about me cheating him. I guess this was before the dance of tennis was fully evolved.
Name:	Will Ryan
Message:	Jena was a good friend and I'm shocked by his leaving us at such a young age. Over the years, when I saw him, he always brought a smile to my face. Maybe it was his beret or his bright, clear eyes or his attentive listening that attracted me to him? In the 15 years I've known him, he was a consummate networker to our men's group and a friend to all. His Labor Day picnics were memorable and joy-filled. Dear Jena, I miss you. Will Ryan
Name:	Jay Gordon
Message:	As I read all the remembrances of Jena, first I got goose bumps and then I started to cry. All the wonderful things said of Yena are so true. But having known him for a long time I must admit I took him and all the positive energy he created for granted. And while reading the notes from all his friends, it actually sunk in that Yean had died. That is just not possible. He is so strong! Where does that leave the rest of us? The comment that he will always be there so if we don't make it to Camp Yena this year we will definitely get there next year really got me crying. If there is a more perfect place on this earth than Camp Yena please someone take me there. To honor Yena I am going to tell a few stories that, although my memory is fading, remain clear, I guess because they are so real and were so Yean-like it is not possibele to forget those moments. I invoke my right to make fun of Yena because I am the Jay of Jay's Cafe, which is on the sign that I hope still hangs on the kitchen in the woods. It was in the winter of 1972-73 on the porch of the tiny house I was renting with my girlfriend Pat Kane (who many years later helped Yena with his workshops in L.A. You know Yena- he tied the whole world together.), that Yena, who was of course mooching off us, as hundreds/thousands of us later mooched off him, after playing a few songs on his guitar (Leonard Cohen?), came and sat next to me. "Jay" he said in a very serious but joyous way, "Gene Marsten is dead. I am now Yena Marcovicci." And he went on to explain why he was changing his name. You know, to honor his family from Hungary, his roots, etc. One small problem. Gene Marsten was a well known name in the tennis community of south Florida and the world for that matter. The next month he entered a tennis tournament as Yena Marcovicci. When he showed up to play his first match, he discovered he was in the women's draw. Now Yena liked anything to do with women, but this is not what he had in mind. This is going to take a while, so please indulge me. After all Yena wrote several books, so these stories are my tribute to the incredible determination and time it took for him to write all those books, in his "spare time". Right! Speaking of Jay's Cafe, in 1976 or so I was working at my vegetarian restaurant in San Diego, Jay's Vegetarian Cafe, when I got a call from a man seeking directions who said he had a hitch-hiker with him who wanted to come see me. Of course that was you know who. Yena shortly appeared, chalk board in hand, giutar under his arm, and racket bag over his shoulder.
Name:	Michael Kuhle
Message:	Its hard to say anything more that hasnt already been written. While I first met Yena in California at Pepperdine, I was lucky enough to get to know him better the last 8 years. Especially my first trip to what we called Camp Yena, his home in the Berkshires. Unfortunately it wont be Camp Yena anymore. I will miss his annual trip to Ft Lauderdale with Skye. It was something I always looked forward to each winter. When I could reminice(sp) with him about a match we lost in New England, to a team that hadnt supposedly been beaten in 10 years. We had double match point and found a way to lose. Yena would always smile when we talked about that one. Take care Yena I will miss you. Mike Kuhle
Name:	Beth Wald
Message:	Jena was one of my husband's oldest and dearest friends and each year we were lucky enough to have Jena come and stay with us when he was in the Boston area to do his inner city program or was simply passing through on his way to a tennis tournament. He always brought a wonderful spirit, a big smile, and an unforgettable laugh. His presence uplifed our entire household, and when Skye came with him, the visits were extra special. I will cherish those visits and miss Jena forever. I was touched to my very soul by Jena's memorial service and all the wonderful stories told at the gathering at his house yesterday. I feel lucky to have known him and am so glad that he and Skye came into my life. He will be a role model for me always.
Name:	Dave Atwood; Brother of Jena's close friend John Atwood
Message:	Jena was one of my brother Johns best friends, and I knew him through John. John asked me to write something about Jena. I met him long ago, I think, when they were both at U of Miami, and probably only met him again once after that, I believe at my brothers wedding, but I have felt for 30 years like I have known Jena very well through Johns close friendship and his many stories about Jena, and his admiration of Jenas peaceful and loving spirit. Its impossible for me, a Christian, not to see Jenas life and death through the lens of the Bible; one of the most important verses in the Bible speaks to me about Jena: The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control&since we live by the Spirit let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other. I dont know much about the Zen of tennis but I know from my brother that Jenas tennis teaching, his commitment to using his unique approach to tennis as a way to help a wide range of people improve not only their game, but their attitude and their lives, his professional and personal relationships, and his entire life showed these fruits of the Spirit. I guess I have always been humbled by Jenas conclusion long ago that it would just be better for him not to speak for a year, and then to actually carry that out!& how many of us who in our better moments might consider ourselves humble and modest and careful and considerate in our speech would have the self-insight and courage to do that? My comfort in such difficult and very sad times is best summed up in the words of St. Paul: We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express&For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God.
Name:	Glenn Brooks
Message:	Who Jena is can not pass away. His generosity, caring and spontaniety has touched not just me but many, many people and his message will keep connecting to to others. His message is very much alive. I came to know Jena about 24 years ago and I realize more and more how his life touched, inspired and enlivened my own. May his transition be peaceful and as loving as his journey on earth. Love to all his beautiful family and precious Skye.
Name:	Ted beard
Message:	Yena, thank you for all the love you have given to my sister Skye and our family, I will truly miss you , your spirit will live on in our hearts forever.! A true warrior a
Name:	John Casey
Message:	I will miss Jena , He was so full of Life and it was His gift ! He gave it away ,without reservation. I wish that the whole world could have come to know him. Jena , I will remember you always.
Name:	Jenna Ungurain
Message:	how could one ever sum up the greatness and love you have added to my life...i hold you closer than ever, my soul friend. I have walked behind u in awe of the amazing footprints you have been leaving in this lifetime. Now, I can only imagine those footprints spanning out in a hundred directions as others touched by you, continue on with that inspiring work of involving others and showing them their self-worth and abilities. I send you Unconditional love from one realm to the next. peace, love and tranquility Jenna Rose (Iodine)
Name:	Michael Gregory
Message:	Jena was a very dear and valued friend to me (also my tennis mentor). He cared, about people, all people. He lived life with joy, passion, compassion and empathy. He reveled in wondrous simplicity and marveled at the beauty of everyday life. With Jena actions spoke louder, Jenas spoke volumes. Jena was a fighter, he fought the good fight, dove in deep and made a difference. He was a pied piper, able to inspire, motivate and enlist others to trust, believe and support him in the profound hope of his vision. Each and every one of us matters. Within each and every one of us contained is the power to move the world, towards the better, if we dare but try. Jena danced his dance and it struck a chord in me. The chord is ringing loud, clear and strong. I miss him very much.
Name:	Gary Rudman
Message:	Although I never met Jena, I know how important he was to my parents Carole and Ed. He made an important and valuble difference in their lives and will be missed greatly. I am very sorry for your loss. Best regards, Gary Rudman
Name:	Neil Chernick
Message:	Dear Skye, It's really amazing; I have never met you and Jena but I feel as though I have come to know both of you by talking on the phone and now reading all the great things everyone has said about you both. You made a gallant try to be a bookkeeper when it wasn't your thing. Jena did such a wonderful job in trying to make my job easier by making sure I received everything I needed for the Joy of Athletics. During the last few months I got to know Jena a bit more. Only two weeks ago we had a discussion about politics and the world situation. Prior to that he helped guide me in how to start getting a tennis program going at the Holyoke Canoe Club. I last spoke to him on Sunday. I sensed that he did not want to talk very much for some reason. In any case, I feel as though I really missed out on never meeting with him face to face. In just reading the messages to you and him and writing my own, he has touched my life. Bless you Skye.
Name:	Adeline Ellis
Message:	I will miss the drive up Rossiter!The calm when you reached it-a sanctuary, peace for an hour, good company, tennis, the beauty of the trees,my chair where I watched my daughters play.... Our family-Jeff, caroline, Emily and myself spent hours there hitting tennis balls, talking, playing with the dogs; it was a wonderful time. It was one of the reasons that made moving to the Berkshires worth it. Thank you Jena for all the joy! Oh Babycakes!
Name:	Emily Ellis
Message:	I remember my first car ride to Jena's house with my mom. I was going to take my first tennis lesson from Jena and was somewhat nervous. I saw Jena's name on a sign in front of the court and thought to myself," Oh boy now i have to take a lesson from a guy named "Jenna" which I thought was short for Jennifer. I was confused how to pronounce it at the time. I clearly remember at each lesson I took from him, he would rub "Zinc Oxide" on his lips. I thought that it was pretty funny because during each lesson I wanted to tell him that his lips were really white but was too embarrased. Jena has given me many tennis skills and taught me to embrace life in every way with the smile he always gave me at each lesson. I enjoyed Jena's teaching methods and will always keep memories of him!
Name:	Ellen Boxer Aldrich
Message:	Dear Mrs.Troy,Margo,Pam and family, I last saw Gene at our 40th PHS reunion in 2004. We had a wonderful conversation. What struck me most about Gene was his passion and enthusiasm for everything he did in his life. We had great fun recalling the wonderful times at Bousquet's skiing with all our friends. I will always remember his bright, warm smile. He was a kind person. I send my thoughts and prayers to you in this very sad time. With love, Ellen Boxer Aldrich
Name:	Sarah Ashley Beard
Message:	I know I never saw much of you and Auntie Skye but you were loved by me very much. You were a very loving person and I wish that I could of had some more personal time with you and our family. I love you and Skye with all my heart. You were such a wonderful person.
Name:	Jeff Caligari
Message:	I just returned from the funeral service for Yenna and I found it remarkable how Yenna had such a positive effect on so many people! He set a great example for us to lead the rest of our lives. He will always be remembered by me for that smile on his face!
Name:	Andy Goldfarb
Message:	I met Jena a couple of years ago. I went to Jena to improve my tennis. I left each session with Jena having improved my life. Jena had an amazing gift to use the tennis court as a metaphor for life. While improving mechanics of my forehand and backhand, he simultaneously lifted my game and my spirits. I have reached so much more joy out of tennis (and other sports) than I had previously realized was possible. Jena opened doors for me that I didn't realize existed. He showed me paths that I wasn't aware of. Obviously, this increased joy and awareness for sports has transfered to the other areas of my life. For that, I am deeply indebted. He was profoundly impactful during our short friendship. I will miss him a great deal. However, I am lucky to carry his lessons with me each time that I play. I wish Skye my most heartfelt sympathy for Jena's early tragic loss. We are all grateful for Skye and Jena opening their home and hearts for us to play tennis and sharing Jena's dance of joy for life. Sincerely Andy Goldfarb
Name:	Susanna Opper
Message:	Dear Skye, I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn that Jena has left us. Though I didnýt know him well, I always found him to be the most extraordinary spiritýalmost not of this world. His energy was so light and his commitment to the game of tennis so profound that it almost seemed a contradiction. Jena was a delightful, fascinating, kind and caring person. Iým sure there will be ripples from his passing for a very long time as the people he has touched learn that he is gone. My deepest condolences. Susanna
Name:	Dorothea Greene and Linda Morse
Message:	We experienced Jena as a very open, happy, giving person. We are very sorry for your loss, Skye.
Name:	Jerry Weil
Message:	Dear Skye, When I moved to the Berkshires I started hearing about a man named Jena who taught tennis, did good works and was very spiritual. By the time I first met him it felt like I'd always known him. His very generous spirit remains with all of us who were lucky enough to know him. My sincere condolences to you and your family, Jerry Weil
Name:	Paul Hope
Message:	Dear Skye, I left the Berkshires the day after I had lunch with Jena to head South. I was thinking about him as he introduced me to Quinoa and I had just bought some when I heard the news. I am still in disbelief. I am so sorry! He is an inspiration to me and always will be. I can only dream of bringing so much spirituality into everyday life. He is unique and will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences, Paul, Ben and Haven
Name:	todd norian
Message:	Dear Skye, I remember Jena as an amazingly warm, loving, flowing man. His light was so bright and full always. Whenever we would see each other, he always seemed interested in me and what I was doing. He was great that way. Nice to talk to. Fun to be with. He was such a great friend, even though we never really hung out together. We knew each other on a soul level. I think we resonated intrinsically since he was so focused and in love with his gift and his work as was I. He was a great being. May his spirit shine on in your life and in the lives of those he touched. I will miss him. Much Love, Todd Norian
Name:	ann greene
Message:	Dearest Sky, I remember after you were married, Jena sat you down and asked what your life dreams were. . and then said, "Let's go after them and make them all come true." Each year I would see him - and he would express more awe and delight in the amazing woman you continued to become. His already beyond huge and radiant smile grew brighter every year and every time he talked about you. I know he will continue to cheer you on and you will continue to amaze him as he now becomes your sky. Sending love to you and thanking the universe for the great good fortune to have known such a radiant soul that still brings a smile to my heart. love, ann
Name:	jane beard
Message:	Although I only spent time with Jena twice, he left quite an impression on me. Wow, what a powerhouse of energy! Loving, generous, and joyous quickly come to mind. He really seemed to bring the best out in people.
Name:	Andrea Connell Fantechi
Message:	Dear Skye, what can words express in these sad moments of life...words are absolutely worthless and empty. We should always remember Jena through the extraordinary and beautiful things he accomplished and created during his magical life. Since I met you and Jena in the August of 1995, his generous charisma, loving,caring personality and his inestimable teachings have been a constant presence in my everyday life,on and off the court. He was a great Tennis Coach and helped me supremely to dramatically improve my game. But his teachings go so far beyond the planet of Sport,they embrace the higher meanings of our presence in this world. Every single moment with him,will be sculptured in my mind and heart for all my life. A truly unbelievable man...he has been a blessing to everybody that had the honor and fortune to meet hima nd get to know his loving soul. He will never be forgotten...his teachings and his memory will live on forever.He made a difference to so many people of all ages and to young underprivileged kids...they are the future...may they all have just a little piece of his spirit as they walk this Life. May we all. An unbelievable human being...too strong for words. Mum,Dad and I send you our deepest condolences. Our hearts and thoughts are close to you. Hugs, Piero, Jill and Andrea Connell Fantechi. Florence, Italy
Name:	Mark Miller
Message:	Skye, Here's a letter I just wrote the old-fashioned way but am copying for sending the new way. Mark I am so, so, so very sorry I will never be able to see and talk with Jena. When, standing in the kitchen yesterday morning, I saw his name and beautiful face on the obituary page of the Eagle, I shouted out, "No!" Later, when I called my sister-in-law, Nancy, her reaction was identical. I was just talking with my wife, Osneyda, a Nicaraguan, about him. She said, "I like a lot him. He's a great person." She recalled how, at the annual Labor Day celebration at your house, he lamented not being able to spend more time speaking with me and us, because as a host he was so busy. Then I remembered that. Why can't men get together for lunch? We never did, probably never thought of it, either one of us. As you know, Jena and I go back to when we were kids, 11 or 12 or so, maybe 13. Most specifically, I remember his picking a fight with me -- for whatever reason -- in his backyard, or in Lee Elge's back yard (they abutted). I thought it was ridiculous, but would have defended myself, no problem, win or lose. For some reason Lee, who was our age, felt he had to fight for me, which I resented, but he did anyway. I was all so quick, and over pretty quickly too. Now it's apparent why Jena -- Gene then -- wanted to fight. He saw me as a rich kid (and I think he said so) -- correct there -- and he saw a kind of injustice that I should (in his eyes) have it so easy while his father, Alex, whom I remember well from his Marsten's Ski Den, had to work so hard, and his mother too. They were separated or divorced and my parents weren't. Not too long after that we double-dated at a movie. I'm almost certain it was a Dean Martin/Jerry Lewis matinee at the Capitol or Palace on North Street. There may have been a cowboy movie with it. What did I know about dating? He met me there with two girls. One of them was Judy Olsen. They were both pretty. Ten or 15 minutes into the movie he noticed my arm was not around my date's shoulder (not to mention that I wasn't trying to feel her up), so he physically got my arm and put it there. It was a little humiliating. Whether as Jena or Gene -- and names are so arbitrary in any case, but Jena does seem to fit him much better -- he was, in my mind, spontaneous, genuine, inquiring, quick, not one to settle for "the way it spoze to be" -- the way society seems to have things set up. Hence The Dance of Tennis Project and the Joy of Athletics Foundation, to try to remedy what he could while being as physically active as he could. Perfect. When Osneyda and I attended our first Labor Day celebration at your place, I told her, and Jena, that I felt like I was visiting Jay Gadsby's place in F. Scott Fitzgerald's "The Great Gadsby." That was as we were walking up the long drive past car after car. Then -- true to the 21st century, here was a house built into the earth, and a tennis court next to it. Perfect. The problem with so many people like Jena is that they seem as if they're going to be around, if not forever, as long as you're going to be, so no hurry getting over to the annual fiesta. There's always next year. And besides, maybe I'll bump into him at The Bookstore, like I did several years ago, when I realized he was here. Well now he's not, and the injustice of this reality is hard to take. I commiserate with you and Jena's mother and sisters and all his closest survivors, as well as with the many of those there must be who are like me, who are more distant but just figured there would be plenty of time to see and enjoy Jena.
Name:	Andrea Marcovicci
Message:	I so wish I could be there at the memorial . . . Yena was my Nephew, son of my half brother Sandy, and quite surprisingly, was actually older than I by a few years! Oh the delight he would take in calling me "auntie" from the time we were little kids all the way to now, when I'm dressed up in my finery ready to sing a concert and he's wearing a beret with bits of grey hair peaking out here and there!Oh what a scamp! When he was little, he was Gene, named after my father Eugene, and I marveled at his transformation to Yena . . . He has been surrounded by light and love all of his magical life, and surely will be in heaven. with love, Andrea Marcovicci
Name:	Jo Courtenay
Message:	a sweet, kind, funny, thoughtful man who gave life his all with energy, wit and enthusiam - part of the good in humanity.......a loss to this world
Name:	Tim Keohane
Message:	Jena, Wishing you the best in the next life. I will carry with me tennis in the Grove and the Connecticut trip with the Flyers-and you were a big part of that. Another flyer has soared to new heights....
Name:	linda gransby
Message:	Dear Skye-Di...I was so saddened to hear about Jena and altho I never had the chance to meet him -have heard many wonderful stories over the years from Sue...he was surely a wonderful man. I'll be thinking of you and wishing you the very best - always Love and many hugs - linda
Name:	Leon Matsil
Message:	Jena Marcovicci was a dear friend for 36 years. He lived his life with a beautiful attitude as he loved people and generously shared his passions with them. Jena was the first person in my life to make me aware of my own breath...that is no small thing. Little steps....bounce hit...helping people find their rhythm. Oh, but he loved the rhythm of life. Hitting tennis balls at the Stockbridge Country Club at the end of a summer day with the church bells chiming in the background....pure magic If ones life is measured in spending time doing what they want to do, then Jena died at a ripe old age. Thanks for the friendshp and love Jena.... so sorry for your loss Skye The following poem by AE Housman could have easily been written as a eulogy to one of the sweetest people I have ever known. To an Athlete Dying Young by A. E. Housman (1859-1936) The time you won your town the race We chaired you through the market-place; Man and boy stood cheering by, And home we brought you shoulder-high. To-day, the road all runners come, Shoulder-high we bring you home, And set you at your threshold down, Townsman of a stiller town. Smart lad, to slip betimes away From fields were glory does not stay And early though the laurel grows It withers quicker than the rose. Eyes the shady night has shut Cannot see the record cut, And silence sounds no worse than cheers After earth has stopped the ears: Now you will not swell the rout Of lads that wore their honours out, Runners whom renown outran And the name died before the man. So set, before its echoes fade, The fleet foot on the sill of shade, And hold to the low lintel up The still-defended challenge-cup. And round that early-laurelled head Will flock to gaze the strengthless dead, And find unwithered on its curls The garland briefer than a girl's.
Name:	Susan Beard
Message:	Unfortunately, I did not have the opportunity to visit Mass often enough to really spend much time with my brother-in-law... but having listened to my sister tell of his winter tennis circuit and the work he did with inner city children, I know that he was certainly one very special person...he touched the lives of people of all ages... he encouraged my sister Skye-Di to become whomever she wanted to be... and off she went to university... he saw the good in people and he was an inspiration to many... and yes that winning smile ... who could ever forget that?!? Jena, you will be missed Luv Sue
Name:	antoinette simms
Message:	I would first like to express my deepest condolences to Janna's wife Skye. I met Janna and Skye about a year ago now and I've never really met anyone like the two of them. There was such a glow to their love and it was so bright that it touched my heart so deeply. I once told Yanna that I admired their relationship because they both had their lives and careers and yet they were such a great team together. Janna was such a wonderful mentor for me and my son Alyx who he taught how to play tennis this past summer. Alyx really looked up to Janna and gained so much confidence from Janna's supportive and patient way. I used to see Janna out there almost everyday teaching people how to play tennis. He had such a wonderfully calm yet energizing presence about him. He made everyone around him feel special. I assisted him in his last workshop at Kripalu in July. I was so pleased and in awe at the way he could remember everyone's name in the workshop after only having heard it one time. He touched the lives of those people so deeply that weekend. It doesn't take long to be affected by Janna's contagious energy, optimism, kindness and love. It exuded out of his being. He carried himself with such grace . I am also sending my deepest sympathy to Janna and Skye's family and friends. Both Janna and Skye are two people who really care about others and the world that we live in. I will miss Janna's greetings to me as he was usually on the court when I would pass by off to work. He was truly and angel on our earth and I will miss his presence deeply. Sending so much love and light to all of those who knew him because I know that you will miss him as well. Love Antoinette and Alyx Simms...
Name:	Bill Kerwood
Message:	When I talked to Jena at the reunion he looked and sounded so wonderful. I can't beleive that he has passed. Had he been sick? When we were in high school, Gene convinced me to sign up for the tennis team evev though I had never lifted a raquet in my life. Jena your fantastic personality will be missed by many! To your entire family Jena, I'm sorry. Bill Kerwood
Name:	Eric Erkkinen
Message:	I couldn't think of a person who lived life more. Jena was a mentor to me for a summer when he had opened up his home to me as I was in the process of leaving my home "nest" and growing up. I had some good times with him playing on his old Gibson guitar, singing some great folk songs and learning fantastic life values. He has left an amazing legacy. I can only imagine how much he will bring to others in his next life.
Name:	Marc Sklar
Message:	Dear Sky, I just received an e-mail informing me of Jena's death.I am currently in Ethiopia for the month and although I am far away in distance I wanted you to know that my heart is with you at this very sad time. Jena was so much more than a tennis teacher to me. He was the sweetest man I have ever known. I can't recall him ever saying an unkind thing about anyone. When I visited him at your home I always said your place was like the "Field of Dreams" of tennis. When hitting with Jena on the hard-tru court that he tended to as if it were a Zen rock garden, I would often say to him, "Jena, this must be heaven." I always knew that it was just an ordinary place and that it was Jena who made it seem like the Garden of Eden. Sitting here in a small Internet shop I am crying. Though I have not seen Jena in a number of years, I always knew he was my friend. We will all miss him so much. His life was a blessing for us, Love, Marc
Name:	Carol McGlinchey Great Barrington, MA
Message:	I met Jena through the "Dance of Tennis"(Tantric Tennis) Program the first year the Omega Institute was operating (before Rhinebeck!) I continued to take his programs at Omega for several years. He showed me how to joyfully play tennis with rather than against my partner and helped me focus on what really mattered. I threw the tennis trophies in the trash and let go of the competition. Thank you, Jena, for teaching us how to live joyfully, peacefully and fully in the moment. Enjoy the dance wherever you are.
Name:	John Atwood
Message:	I will always remember Jena as a wonderful and remarkable person and I miss him. Jena brought love, hope, peace, fun, and inspiration to everyone he touched. He gave far more than he asked for. His kind and generous spirit knew no limits. He was dedicated to living a vibrant, full life. When others caused him pain he forgave them with grace. He dreamed everyday of helping kids - and he did for 35 years. Being with Jena was special because he renewed all of us; he healed our heartaches, and he gave us his joy. His wife Sky, his family and his friends will never forget that our Jena was a special love. Jena Marcovicci lived a truly great life!
Name:	sudha carolyn lundeen
Message:	I last saw Jena the day before he died. He was having lunch at Kripalu Center- part of his eating well intention. As we walked toward each other in the hall- what struck me most was his big smile and the brightness that surrounded him. He always greeted me with such warmth... and it always infused me and buoyed me up- particularly healing that day given my brothers sudden death just one month ago. i will miss him. I also know that his Light shines on... in everyone who was touched by his life. I think of the many "at risk" kids that he and Skye took in each summer.... a legacy of love and generosity. I'd like to share a jack London quote that touched me deeply, from my brothers' funeral. CREDO I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor Every atom of me in magnificenet glow Than a sleepy and permanent planet. The function of man is to live, Not to exist. I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them. I shall use my time. and so Jena did, beautifully.
Name:	Helene
Message:	Jena stands out in my mind as a wonderful, caring, loving man and I will miss him greatly.